… or not (tgstation#87522)

## About The Pull Request

Adds a ternary statement to the logging for adding admin remarks (notes,
messages, watchlists) to specify if a note is secret.
No change to actual administrative functions, just the logging.

## Why It's Good For The Game

Accurately reflects the note added!

## Changelog
:cl:
admin: When a secret note is applied, it'll now be logged as a secret
note (instead of appearing like a regular note).
/:cl:

## About The Pull Request

Closes tgstation#87618
Technically either part of this fix (moving the active check in
seal_part and removing the parts check in control_activation) is enough
to fix this particular issue but I'm doing both for sanity reasons (and
possibly edge cases with modules that modify their required parts? not
sure if we have those)

also yeah it didn't call deactivate()

## Changelog
:cl:
fix: Fixed MODsuit deactivation not disabling modules
/:cl: